Regularly, we start something new, navigate through transitions:
To give you an idea of the journeys I can make with you, I have broadly divided it into 3 categories. This mainly shows how you start, because along the way you may well fit into more than one category.
Leadership puts you at the helm, so you experience both power and influence, and this works through in all areas. It is like refurbishing a house: you start in one room and before you know it you are working everywhere.
Most of the big choices have been made. Your life areas may even all get satisfactory marks, so your course is correct. And yet something is not right. You struggle, run into the same pattern or a chronic feeling of dissatisfaction remains. Your outside is right, but now your inside is. You may also want to reconsider everything because your circumstances have changed.
Female, early 30s, creative, gifted, living together, had combo of grief and burnout, permanent job with employer but position expires
Before: "I want to get to know myself better, don't know where my limits are, work-life balance is not good, how can I get a better view of my performance?"
After: "I trust myself, my feelings and intuition, have come to know and accept myself better. I am at the helm and have the tools to steer."
This is a real trajectory and result, but anonymised. Results are always bespoke and determined together.
| Desired result | Before | After |
|---|---|---|
| Stand cheerful, content and confident at the helm of my life | 6 | 9 |
| Make choices, which suit me, allowing me to experience more peace and balance | 6 | 8 |
| Got to know myself better, know who I am and can relax and be myself | 5 | 9 |
| Know what I want and do the things that give me pleasure and energy | 5 | 7 |
| Know what I am good at, what is important to me in a job and what my non-negotiables are | 4 | 7 |
| Know my own manual and lead myself smartly in the dynamics of work | 4 | 8 |
| Manage my energy management and be mindful of my limits | 4 | 8 |
| Organise sufficient challenge as well as rest each week | 3 | 8 |
| Am curious about the future (if this then that) AND I live in the here & now | 4 | 9 |
In our country, nature has four seasons, but our lives are also in seasons. Suddenly it seems to be time for something different, new, and regularly we have been struggling with this for some time. Time to change course, take different steps or literally change jobs, employers or clients. It may also happen to you as a result of dismissal, reorganisation or burn-out. The course needs to be changed, but what is wise?
| Desired result | Before | After |
|---|---|---|
| Stand relaxed, calm and confident at the helm and experience direction | 2 | 7 |
| Sail a course, which suits who I am, what I really want and am capable of + a win-win course with my environment | 4 | 8 |
| Am connected to who I am, to my deepest core and whole being and listen to my intuition/feeler | 1 | 8 |
| Have restored the relationship with myself, am true to myself, my conscience and my values | 5 | 8 |
| Have watched and felt through the dramas, live rather than survive | 3 | 9 |
| Have calmed down, recovered, experience energy and flow again | 2 | 7 |
| Feel my limits, know when to let go or give up and have a clear view of my circle of influence | 4 | 8 |
| Know how to smartly manage myself, my energy (management), how to relax and also enjoy doing nothing at all | 1 | 6 |
| Experience passion and joy and work with my most important core qualities and together with others | 2 | 7 |
| Be a leader and lead people, a movement and improvement - without losing connection | 6 | 8 |
| Know what is important in choosing work, what suits me and how to create the right conditions before committing to something or when it is better to leave | 4 | 7 |
Male, mid-50s, married, close-knit and open family, adult children, ambitious, doer, leader and administrator
Before: "I struggle with a great sense of responsibility and urge to want to act on my own. What will I do until retirement?"
After: "I have more peace in myself, a better view of myself, my qualities and areas of focus but above all both feet on the ground again at home, privately, in relationships and love."
This is a real trajectory and result, but anonymised. Results are always bespoke and determined together.
Everyone has their own course that suits them. It may be that you never connected with it or that you took too little time to get to know it. Sooner or later, you get stuck and struggle with choosing a direction, because what does fit?
Male, mid-40s, married, no children, entrepreneur with good network and well-filled order book
Before: "I feel like life is living me. Things have to be different. I no longer experience pleasure, motivation or meaning - what do I really want?"
After: "I am relaxed, experience space, know what gives energy and what my strengths are. I have a new love with bonus children, the nicest client has become an employer and my business is (temporarily) on the back burner."
This is a real trajectory and result, but anonymised. Results are always bespoke and determined together.
| Desired result | After | Before |
|---|---|---|
| Stand at the helm of my life, stand by my choices and set my stubborn course & dot on the horizon | 3 | 8 |
| Have reinvented myself and know my own instructions and power | 1 | 7 |
| Know what I want and how to get there (structurally) | 1 | 7 |
| Be healthy and experience private meaning and relaxation | 3 | 9 |
| Have a weekly rhythm, in which I realise things, build something with my hands | 3 | 8 |
| Am an entrepreneur and know what my strengths and added value for the customer are | 6 | 7 |
| Choose consciously with whom I do and do not work, build and maintain my own network organisation | 3 | 8 |
| Experience pleasure, focus and satisfaction in my work | 1 | 5 |